The Now – A Journey of a Lost Soul
I used to be a wanderer who lost his way, a “loyal slave” to my own mental chatter. I carried a thick shadow of anxiety even when standing under the brightest sun of my life. For years, I wasn’t really “living”; I was just “preparing to live” or “regretting having…
HAPPINESS HAS NO FINISH LINE (PART 2)
“Then What?” – When Happiness is an Infinite Journey I was recently bragging to an old buddy about my “life overhaul” plan. I jokingly call it redesigning my existence—or, for the sake of sounding fancy, designing a life worth living. The plan includes some pretty “audacious” milestones. For instance, I’m…
THE EXPIRATION DATE OF HAPPINESS (PART 1)
I have a friend who used to be the “poster child” of success. He spent his youth grinding in the States for a prestigious MBA, then flew back home to sit in a big-boss chair with a fat salary and a car so shiny you could use it as a…
When the Mind Is Still, the World Naturally Settles
Have you ever felt like a traveler tirelessly chasing the horizon, clinging to the belief that if you just take one more step, you will finally arrive at the promised land of relaxation? I used to be exactly like that. I set up “peace milestones” for my life: Wait until…
Just a Thought
Dream On: Work-Life Balance!?
Five years ago, I was in a leadership training session with a woman who had over 25 years of HR experience, managing giants with over 5,000 employees across Vietnam and Europe. Looking at the mountain of work she faced daily, I couldn’t help but notice something strange: she had this…
Why I Stopped “Preparing to Live”
I’ve stood in some of the most breathtaking places on Earth, only to realize I wasn’t actually there. My body was in a paradise of turquoise waters and ancient architecture, but my mind? It was back in a cramped office, suffocating under a mountain of paperwork. I was a “weird…
The Deep Blue: A Calculated Bet on Absolute Freedom
For the past ten years, whenever I hit a beautiful coastline, I’ve kept a habit that most people call insane: I swim out. Way out. I swim until the noisy crowds on the sand shrink into tiny, irrelevant dots. I swim until the roar of the waves hitting the shore…
Life's Playbooks
The Great Shift: From Comfort Zone to Blood, Sweat, and Freedom
Some books are meant to be read; others are designed to demolish and rebuild your entire existence. For me, Robert Kiyosaki’s Rich Dad Poor Dad wasn’t a dry financial manual. It was a mirror—one that reflected the “delusional security” I had spent years clinging to. Looking back at the decade-long…
THE 80/20 RULE: A JOURNEY FROM CHAOS TO FREEDOM
In his world-renowned book, Richard Koch dropped a bombshell: “Most of what we do is of little value.” The world is inherently unbalanced. This imbalance isn’t a flaw of nature; it’s a universal law present in every corner of life—from economics and business to personal happiness. I once spent half…